Archive of Personal
Thanksgiving
November 26, 2010, 7:40 pm View CommentsTo all my friends here in the US, I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving yesterday, no matter how you celebrated it.
And to all of my friends outside of the US, I hope you had an equally wonderful Thursday!
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Thanks, Mom and Dad, for introducing me to space
October 27, 2010, 5:22 pm View CommentsI owe a lot of my interest in science and space exploration to my parents. Growing up, my Dad took me on field trips to explore planets and stars through telescopes in the dead of winter. My first up-close look at the Moon knocked my socks off. We put down blankets in the backyard and counted meteors during showers. My parents bought subscriptions for me to kids’ science and space magazines, and I once got to spend a summer at the the Maryland Science Center’s planetarium in Baltimore.
A few years ago, when Mars and the Earth were closer to each other than they’d ever be in our lifetimes, my dad and I gazed at the Martian polar ice caps through his telescope. It was stunning.
Just this past May, I was lucky enough to road trip down to Florida with my sister and father to watch my first-ever space shuttle launch, the launch of Space Shuttle Atlantis, STS-132. Right now, I’m beside myself with excitement for the NASA Tweetup this weekend.
I’m so thankful that my parents introduced me to space at a young age. Just a few minutes ago, I got this email from my dad:
The date for the next launch draws near and I’m excited even tho I’m not going! So I thought you might like to see this pic of your space shuttle toy that I found cleaning up today. Still in great working condition!
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I totally remember this toy. It was one of my favorites. Right now, I kind of want to go home and play with it.
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The year of adventure continues
October 1, 2010, 12:09 pm View Comments2009 was kind of a rough year for everyone. The economy did a swan-dive into an empty pool and a lot of us lost our jobs.
This year, I declared, would be different. While watching Olympic hockey and a space shuttle landing (I’m a multitasker), I could tell this year would be filled with adventures. And wow, yes, it sure has. It’s been better than I had imagined, and I feel so lucky to have had so many experiences this year. A quick verbal montage:
- Survived the snowpocalypse
- Played a reunion show with Three Track Mind
- Turned 30
- Went to South by Southwest
- Saw the final (scheduled) launch of Space Shuttle Atlantis
- Went to MaxFunCon
- Quit an unfulfilling job
- Watched the World Cup
- Watched fireworks from my roof
- Met Tom Green
- Found an amazing new job
- Started my second year of grad school
And now it’s October. It’s autumn, my favorite season, and I still have a few adventures before the year wraps up. Next weekend, I’m biking 100 kilometers in the Seagull Century. In November, I’m one of the lucky ones going to the NASA Tweetup for Space Shuttle Discovery’s last trip to space. (That’s right: Two shuttle launches in one year!) A week later I get to see my all-time favorite band, The Posies, play in DC. And then it’s the holidays.
I feel so incredibly lucky. As I write this, I’m sitting at the same table where I was back in February, daydreaming about all these adventures. I couldn’t be happier with how everything turned out. 2010 has been filled with experiences, friends, and family I wouldn’t trade for anything.
What was your favorite adventure of 2010? How do you plan on topping it in 2011?
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The Posies return to the 9:30 Club Nov. 17
September 8, 2010, 1:51 pm View CommentsI saw the Posies for the very first time on June 26, 1996 during the tour for Amazing Disgrace. I was 16 years old and it was my first show at the 9:30 Club in Washington, DC. They played with an infectious intensity that fed the crowd, all of us fans who knew every word to every song. We delighted in the small variations of the live versions, pressed up against the stage as we savored each supremely loud note.
After an encore in which they destroyed their guitars and drum set, we still didn’t have enough. The club turned on its lights and brought up the house music. We didn’t leave. We cheered and chanted. The tech crew packed away the microphones and broke down what was left of the drums. About half of the audience cleared out and left the rest of us begging foolishly for more. Ken stepped back on stage, pleading with us, explaining they just destroyed their equipment and couldn’t play another encore. For some reason, that didn’t seem like a good enough excuse. We stood firm and he ducked backstage.
Moments later, someone brought out a pair of stools, followed by Jon Auer and Ken Stringfellow, armed with acoustic guitars. They asked us sit on stage with them. Then, as if knowing exactly what we wanted to hear, they dug deep into their catalog, took requests, and even covered “I Am the Cosmos” and “Surrender”. And then, finally, after essentially giving us two complete shows in one, they exited the stage for the last time.
In the months that followed, I learned all of their songs on my guitar. I experimented with the crazy alternate tunings they used. I connected with someone on the Dear 23 mailing list who sent me a tape of the show, recorded right off the 9:30 Club soundboard. I started to write my own songs. Because of that show, I got more seriously into music than I had been before. I was furious that their talent and on-stage charisma hadn’t brought the Posies the super-stardom so many mediocre artists enjoyed at that time, but secretly I was happy that nobody else in my school listened to them. I felt like I was in a secret club. I became obsessed with finding other relatively unknown and obscure bands. My friends would joke that I carried around a book of CDs that “no one ever heard of.”
After the “Amazing Disgrace” tour, it was a few years before the Posies returned to DC. I saw them at both the the old and new Black Cat on acoustic and full-band tours. I saw Ken Stringfellow open for Juliana Hatfield. I saw Jon Auer on his solo tour. Most recently, at SXSW this year, I saw Jon and Ken, also members of Big Star, perform in the tribute to Alex Chilton mere days after his shocking and unexpected death.
On Wednesday, November 17, the Posies return to the 9:30 Club with Brendon Benson and Aqueduct. That’s a ridiculously cool lineup. It’s going to be a sort of homecoming for me, a return to the spot where my love of music and live performances began half a lifetime ago.
Tickets just went on pre-sale.
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4th of July Fireworks From My Rooftop
July 6, 2010, 4:36 pm View Comments
From my rooftop, we had a panoramic view and could see every firework set off in the city. On the left-hand side of this photo, you can see fireworks over the Inner Harbor. On the right-hand side, you can see fireworks set off by criminals.
I hope you had a happy and safe Independence Day. Now get back to work!
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104 Degrees!
July 6, 2010, 10:14 am View CommentsA few moments ago, while getting ready for work, I checked the weather and saw this forecast:
It’s supposed to hit 104 degrees today. That’s 40º C for those of you who speak metric.
Last week, the air conditioning in my corner of the office didn’t work very well. I hope someone fixed it over the weekend.
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Warby Parker has all-star customer service
June 29, 2010, 7:46 pm View Comments
A few years ago, I started buying glasses online and haven’t looked back since. The prices are far cheaper than what I had found in doctors’ offices or eyewear storefronts, and the quality has been just as high. An excellent resource for research and vendor reviews is the blog Glassy Eyes, which turned me on to a couple of great online retailers.
This time, I tried something new and went with a company called Warby Parker, which I first heard of from Put This On. Warby Parker’s selection is great and very well-priced at $95. I picked out a pair of frames called Huxley, entered my prescription, and checked out.
Within an hour, I got a phone call from Brian at Warby Parker. He believed I might have made a mistake when entering my prescription because of the huge difference between my right and left eyes (+0.75 sphere and +1.25 cylinder in the right, +5.00 sphere and +1.50 in the left). He said they rarely see a discrepancy that large between eyes, which I can believe. I’m special.
No, I assured him, my left eye is actually that much weaker than my right eye, but thanks for pointing out my shortcomings. (My exact words were, “Thanks for double-checking!”) I’d never had a company confirm my prescription before, so I was simultaneously bewildered, embarrassed, and impressed with their swift attention.
Brian emailed me a couple hours later. He said it would cost an additional $30 for the high-index lenses needed. That’s a pretty standard charge, and the new total ($125) was still far lower than what it would be at a glasses shop, so I agreed.
A little over a week later, I received a voicemail from Katie at Warby Parker. She apologized for the delay, but they were finally giving up. My prescription was out of their lab’s range.
However, In order to apologize for the delay and ultimate inability to fulfill my order, they sent me the the Huxleys for free so I can have the lenses made by another company. A couple days later, the frames arrived via Priority Mail, and they looked fantastic. The hinges felt sturdy, the plastic durable, and they looked sharp on my big head.
Though they weren’t able to complete my order, Warby Parker gave me some of the most personal, attentive customer service I’ve ever encountered. I always felt like someone was handling my prescription with care and that their primary concern was making me happy. I don’t remember the last time a company made me feel that way. Swoon.
If you’re looking for a pair of glasses, I highly recommend you check them out. Their frames are of excellent quality, and you will have people like Brian and Katie working to make sure your prescription is done right. My only hope is that they can partner with a lab capable of fulfilling stronger prescriptions for those of us with weak eyes.
So, does anybody know a good place that can put lenses into existing frames?
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My Personal Challenges Are off to a Rocky Start
June 14, 2010, 2:44 pm View CommentsI started two experiments last week, which I talked about on my last podcast episode. The goals are to go a month without eating out or watching television. The ideas seemed simple and I hoped they would save me money and open up hours of time for creativity and productivity.
Over the course of one weekend, I’ve already broken all my rules. This is going to be a lot harder than I thought.
I think I picked the absolute worst possible set of 30 days to try these experiments. Almost immediately, I added an exception to the “no TV” rule for World Cup games. I still think that’s a valid exception, seeing how the World Cup comes around once every four years. But that somehow acted as a gateway to me watching five episodes of Mad Men this weekend, too.
Simultaneously, I failed on the “don’t eat out” front. Like the World Cup, I was lured away from my goal (Ha!) of avoiding restaurants and saving money by Dukem, an amazing Ethiopian restaurant in Mt. Vernon. I justified the expense and violation of my newly-formed rule with two excuses. First, I was out with friends. Second, it was Friday and the first day of the World Cup. If those weren’t reasons to celebrate, I reasoned, nothing was.
The floodgates opened. It was Honfest in my neighborhood all weekend, and my willpower succumbed to the food vendors. Guilty and slightly depressed about failing, but also angry at myself for choosing the most inconvenient month for these experiments, I went home and sunk a few more hours into World Cup viewing, mentally re-writing the rules to add an “except on weekends” clause to my rules.
But this morning, with renewed resolve, I’m tackling my goals again. I will bring my lunch with me to work every day. Episodes of Mad Men and the queue of TV shows I have lined up on Netflix will have to wait. I’m going to cook for myself every night. The take-out menus have been placed out of sight to prevent further lapses.
Sure, I stumbled hard this first weekend. But for the rest of the 30 days, I’m going to buckle down, focus, and see if I can spend more time creating things while wasting less money and time.
Except for World Cup games. I’d hate myself for skipping those.
Oh, and new episodes of Futurama, of course.
I’m screwed.
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Breaking Up With Comcast
June 8, 2010, 8:12 pm View CommentsLook, Comcast, we need to talk.
It’s been a wild few years. I invited you into my home at a time when I lived in a small basement studio apartment and needed Internet access. I had been with DSL for a few months, but we both knew I was just settling. You promised me more channels than I had ever seen in one place, many in startling, breathtaking clarity. I ditched Verizon and signed up with you and your attractive promotional rate.
I was so naïve back then.
Let’s face the facts. I tried to love your digital cable service. I pretended not to care when the Discovery Channel dropped out, sometimes for days, even when you tried to blame it on me.
Maybe I should have listened to my friends. They tried to warn me about you, but I couldn’t resist the way you streamed Netflix in HD.
Over the course of our relationship, you sent me five faulty cable boxes. Five! Who does that? Whenever someone came to swap equipment, you charged me thirty bucks. It should have only taken me two or three service appointments to realize you had no respect for me.
Also, your embarrassingly out-of-date user interface should have been a major red flag.
Oh, remember when I moved to a new apartment in a different neighborhood? You acted like you didn’t even know me and raised my rates without warning. Sure, I tried to call and talk to you about it, but you put me on hold. For over an hour. I believed you when you said my call was important to you, but now I’m not so sure.
Don’t get me wrong, we had some great times, too! You still have the fastest broadband in the city. Remember all those movie trailer downloads? The hours spent playing Xbox? The HD movie rentals? They wouldn’t have been the same without you. And you have a great crew of people on Twitter covering for you.
I’m a different person now. Insanely fast downstream used to be enough for me, but now I need something more. I need reliability and consistency. I need to know my rates won’t change arbitrarily. I need someone I can count on for Internet access without always trying to turn it into a Triple Play.
I’d ask you to please not call with your “special offers”, and I’d ask you to not mail me glossy ads of happy-looking people enjoying your services. But I know you’ll do those things anyway.
I’m boxing up your things, and I’ll drop them by your office on my way home from work. Hopefully, we can end this with civility and without making a scene.
But if you charge me with a “Break-Up Fee”, I’m calling the police.
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A very Smurfy sixth birthday
March 3, 2010, 4:04 pm View CommentsI turned six on March 6, 1986. I was fascinated with how often the number six was involved with my birthday that year, probably because I had recently figured out numbers and patterns.
Here in Maryland, we often have our first spring-like days around my birthday, and in 1986 it was warm enough to have my birthday party outside.
It was a Smurfs-themed birthday party. There were Smurfs plates, Smurfs cups, and a plastic Smurfs tablecloth with a waxy texture that, for some reason, I can still remember clearly.
There was a gang of six-year-olds running around the backyard. We played Pin the Tail on the Donkey outside under the warm March sunlight, the game hung on an outside wall. My parents had decorated the backyard patio with streamers and balloons, some even in the nearby trees, which to my six-year-old eyes seemed outrageous and exciting. That might have also been the year we set up plastic bowling pins and converted a hallway into a bowling lane, but that game might be from another childhood birthday that I’m blending into this one.
Though it was Smurfs-themed party, with almost all decorations and accessories following a Smurfy blue color scheme, I was adamant that I have a green birthday cake. I think my mom tried to talk me out of it, but I was resolute. (Again, I might be plucking that detail from another birthday, but I’m pretty sure it’s right.)
24 (!) years later, we’re experiencing a mix of rain and snow mix today. But right on schedule, the temperatures are expected rise into the 50s with sunny skies on my birthday this Saturday. I’m not sure why the first signs of spring seem to usually coincide with my birthday (or, let’s be honest, everybody’s early-March birthday in Maryland), but I’ll take it. It seems like a good way to kick off a new year and decade.
I’m not sure what made me think about my sixth birthday, but it was definitely one of my favorites. I think it set the tone for what I expected out of all subsequent birthdays. While I won’t be playing Pin the Tail on the Donkey this weekend (mostly because I couldn’t figure out how to fit that into my plans without seeming like a big weirdo), I’m excited about warmer weather and a weekend spent with friends and family.